MEC Employee Assistance Program (EAP) & Professional Standards Committee
October is National Domestic Violence Awareness Month.
What Flight Attendants should know:
Domestic violence is often misunderstood or overlooked, especially in a career like ours where long hours, time away from home, and constant schedule changes can make unhealthy or unsafe relationships harder to recognize. For Flight Attendants, the impact can be even more complicated, and it’s important to know the signs and know where to turn for support.
Domestic violence is not always physical. It can be emotional, verbal, financial, or psychological. It can affect anyone, regardless of age, gender, background, or seniority. Abusers are not always loud or aggressive. Many appear kind or respected. What defines an abuser is how they treat their partner when no one is around.
Some warning signs of an abuser
How this can affect your flying
Domestic violence can show up in ways that impact your work. You may feel distracted, anxious, or exhausted. You may avoid picking up trips because of pressure at home. You may feel unsafe returning from a pairing. None of this means you are weak. It means you are human.
You are not alone
Our Employee Assistance Program (EAP) is a confidential resource available to every Flight Attendant, family member or friend. If you ever feel unsafe, overwhelmed, or unsure what to do, you can reach out without fear of judgement. EAP can help you talk through options, connect you with support, and guide you toward resources that protect your safety and wellbeing.
Domestic violence thrives in silence. Awareness creates safety. Reaching out is a strong and courageous step. The National Coalition Against Domestic Violence continues to lead nationwide efforts to support survivors and raise awareness. Their work reminds us that no one has to face this alone.
Remember, confidential help is always available through your AFA EAP 1-800-424-2460, EAP Resources and The National Domestic Violence Hotline 1-800-799-SAFE (7233).